It began with five words I wrote after the partial verdict in the Diddy trial:
“The jury failed those victims.”
I wasn’t sensationalizing—I was naming a truth that survivors saw, but many others seemed unwilling to recognize. The reply that rushed in? Repeated thousands of times with hundreds of likes:
“What victims?”
That wasn’t curiosity—it was erasure. A digital dismissal. And it exposed the real issue: an algorithm that amplifies cruelty, devalues empathy, and rewards distortion.
That is why I created Unlearn Me.
This Substack explores how platforms and culture can normalize violence, push survivor voices into the shadows, and gaslight anyone who dares to speak clearly. I’ll be examining the psychology and systems that uphold victim-blaming, narcissism in online spaces, performative ignorance, and collective denial and offering the precise language needed to cut through them.
Here, you’ll find essay-style analysis, real-time commentary, and context rooted in both emotional truth and system-level insight. If you've felt silenced, accused, or questioned for naming harm, this is a space to regain clarity—and the vocabulary that supports it.
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